Oral sex, both cunnilingus and fellatio, is one of the most common practices in sexual encounters. Although not everyone likes it, a high percentage of people practice it on a regular basis and above other practices such as penetration.
As in any sexual technique, one of the most important things to carry it out is that it generates enjoyment, that you like to do it and receive it. If not, there are many other practices that can be tried. According to Noemà Casquet, a very famous journalist specialized in sexuality, and writer of the erotic novel trilogy “Sunshine, Bads and Free”, these are five keys that everyone should keep in mind:
1. Awaken body sensory
Before starting cunnilingus it is better that the person is excited. To make it more pleasant, it is advisable not to do the first practice, but to carry out another series of acts that awaken the body’s sensoriality, such as stimulating the skin, giving kisses, caresses, etc… the objective is to generate desire in both people. .
2. Go making progressive approaches
A good tip when practicing cunnilingus is not to go directly to the clitoris. Start, for example, on the front of the thighs, go licking and kissing the vulva, go through the outer and inner lips that are quite forgotten and have many nerve endings, until finally reaching the clitoris calmly.
It is important to transmit the excitement.
3. Vary the stimuli
To make correct use of the language, an essential element of this practice, it is recommended to use the upper part and the lower part, because they have different touches. It is also advisable to intersperse with the both two lips to have a greater variety of stimuli. When we focus on the clitoris, different movements can be made: horizontal, vertical, circular or semicircular and long or short.
4. Non-verbal language
It is important to pay attention to non-verbal language. For example, if the woman spreads her legs, arches and/or moans, it is a sign that she is getting aroused. If there is no movement or expression, it may be that she is not comfortable with something that you are doing. As there are individual differences, if there is any doubt, it is best to ask, is it okay like this? you are well? Depending on the arousal reactions when we make a variation, we can maintain each stimulus for more or less time.
Couple having sex.
5. Concrete techniques
There are some specific techniques that has been recommended for when the excitement is at a high degree. First, when the clitoris is erect, you can very gently suck with the lips. Surround the clitoris with the lips, suck and release it. You can also suck, hold and stimulate the clitoris with the tip of the tongue.
G-zone stimulation is also a possibility. To carry it out, two fingers are introduced little by little and always taking into account if the other person is liking it. A few centimeters following the pelvic bone, on the front face, there is a small rougher area, which can be very pleasing. It is stimulated by making a movement with the fingers as if to say “come, come”. Some people like it slower or faster, with more or less pressure.
And finally, and perhaps most important of all, enjoy giving and enjoy receiving, and also express it. One of the most exciting things there is to see the person with whom you have a sexual encounter enjoy. It is good to transmit the joy in the way that is most natural, with movements, with moans or with words.
