The size of the penis is a subject that worries many people and it is possible that, at least in part, the origin of this concern is porn, since it conveys the idea that the bigger the penis, the more enjoyable in the penis. sex. However, the reality may be different and a large penis does not have to be synonymous with more pleasure.
In fact, some people may feel discomfort and even pain when penetration is done with a large penis. That’s why it’s important to know how to use it! To help you, below, we have prepared a list of what for us are the best sexual positions for large penises.
What is the size of an average penis?
Much has been made about penis size, a conversation that can be uncomfortable for some people. But, in order to understand if we are talking about a small or large penis, the first thing to know is which size is considered the most common.
To dispel this common question, psychiatrist David Veale, Professor at King’s College London and Consultant Psychiatrist at South London and Maudsley NHS Foundation Trust, and his team compiled and synthesized the results of 17 medical studies on penile measurement conducted with the participation of more than 15,000 people around the world to establish what is the average size of the penis worldwide. The result, published in the British Journal of Urology, reveals that the average size of the flaccid penis is 9.16 cm and the erect one is 13.12 cm (1). This information can help dispel all the myths surrounding penis size and encourage people to enjoy their sexuality and sexual encounters much more.
And if the case is that the size of your penis or that of your partner (or partners) is above average, it is advisable to know the most pleasurable positions for large penises so that you can enjoy each sexual encounter to the fullest.
Best sexual positions for big penises
If you are wondering about the best positions if my partner has a large penis to get pleasure without discomfort, or if you are the one who is well-hung and want to know how to please in bed, then we have compiled some sexual positions that achieve penetration shallow or more rubbing against the clitoris, if applicable.
As its name suggests, this position is about lying one person on top of another as you would when lying down on a lounger. The person who penetrates lies on his back, and the other person lies on top of her with his back to her, so the contact is chest to back. In this way, the penetration is done from behind, which guarantees that it is shallower, offering pleasure without discomfort.
The person with the big penis can be sitting on the bed or in a chair while the person who will receive the penetration should be placed on top, face to face or with his back to him. This gives control to whoever is on top so he can go up and down depending on the penetration he likes, controlling the pace at all times.
In addition, the hands are free to play, making the encounter even more exciting.
The little spoon
It is one of the most classic and simple sexual positions for big penises, and what makes it so popular is that the penetration is also done from behind, so it is less deep. You just have to lie on your side, with the person with the big penis from behind, who must penetrate his partner setting the pace. This position is very exciting because the hands of the person who penetrates are free to touch their partner’s body and stimulate their erogenous zones, making the encounter explosive.
This traditional boring position has little to do and it can become a good option if the person on top is penetrating it, while the person on the bottom keeps their legs closed as much as possible. Thus the penetration is not very deep and, in the case of sex with a girl, the clitoris is touched more, making this position very pleasant.
The possibility of maintaining some control in penetration is what makes missionary one of the most ideal sexual positions for the first time. But this option is not only for newbies, those who already have more practice can also take advantage of it by applying some variants. In our article How to do the most exciting missionary, we offer you some options to take this sexual position to another level.
Sex with a big penis? say yes to lube
Sexual lubricants can be a good ally when having sex with a person with a large penis, as they help to provide extra lubrication so that penetrations become smoother, so they are a basic in this type of relationship. .
Don’t know which lubricant to choose? At Durex we have a wide range compatible with latex, polyisoprene and polyurethane condoms, so you don’t put your safety at stake. Within this range you can find:
- Durex Naturals H2O, a lubricant with 100% natural ingredients. In addition, it contains prebiotics and a balanced pH and is suitable for anal, vaginal and oral sex. Within this range you also have Durex Naturals Extra Sensitive, with aloe vera, or Durex Naturals Moisturizer, with hyaluronic acid.
- Another option is Durex Calor, water-based and very soft to the touch. Its secret is that it contains an ingredient that heats up on contact with the skin, producing a pleasant sensation. You can use it for both vaginal and anal and oral sex.
- You also have Durex Frescor, with which you will notice a soft tingle.
- If you are going to try new experiences, choose Durex Cherry or Durex Strawberry to add a touch of spice to oral, vaginal and anal sex.
- And for long-lasting lubrication you can opt for silicone-based lubricants, such as Durex Perfect Connection, which provides lubrication that does not dry out easily and is more durable than water-based lubricants (2), which is why it is recommended for anal sex, but you can also perfectly use it for vaginal and oral sex.
- Finally, if you prefer a classic option, stick with Durex Original, which is water-based, light and smooth.