2700 years BC healing massages were already given in China and Egypt. Manual therapies date back thousands of years, and in ancient Mesopotamia it was where different ointments for massages began to be used.
But although the testimonies began then, surely the human being was touched long before. Massages and caresses are so pleasant that to this day we continue to use them.
And not only as another tool not only for healing and relaxation, but also to increase desire and as a sexual game. We’ve all tried giving a massage at some point and I’m sure we’ve also received it, but now we’re going to give you some tricks to make that massage go from good to a highly pleasurable erotic game.
If you are going to receive the massage, the most important thing you should do is let yourself go. Relax and enjoy. And if you are going to give the massage, take note of these five tips with which you will take your erotic massage to the next level.
Create atmosphere and prepare the massage
We have said it on countless occasions, but creating an environment is essential to get into the matter . Soft music (be careful not to put something too soft that makes your partner fall asleep), scented candles, low light… Try putting a dark handkerchief over the lamp to give a different touch to the room.
If we are going to do it in bed, we can invite our partner to enter this sensual sanctuary of pleasure with a path of candles, for example, or decorate the bed with petals. These from Amazon are artificial and can be perfumed with any aroma so that when you lie down, your partner is immersed in a sensual aroma (it can be with your own perfume, for example).
Aromatic tea lights (Red Fruits Pack 20 Candles)
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Be careful with the temperature of the room , it is always advisable that it be warm (without getting too hot) so that the person receiving the massage enjoys it much more. And be careful with the outfit of the session, think of something comfortable but far from the tracksuit. He thinks that the objective is to elevate eroticism and pleasure.
Use candles or a massage oil
Massage candles do a triple job: they provide sensual lighting, scent the entire room, and when they melt they make an amazing hot massage oil. You can try a chocolate Shunga massage candle, for example, one of the mini Platanomelon massage candles called Chispa (the floral scent is perfect and very subtle), or any other massage candle like the sensual LELO candles.
If you opt for oil, you have an infinite number of options ranging from heat effect oils like this one from Shunga to oils with cannabis sativa seeds, like this one from Oh! Holy Mary.
Aphrodisiac Massage Oil Heat Effect of Cava and Strawberries 100 ml. – Shunga
From less to more: start with light caresses
We are declared fans of slow sex , and we also love its philosophy if we talk about erotic massages. We could start directly with our hands, but we are going to extend the pleasure as long as possible.
That is why we will begin with soft, almost imperceptible caresses. We can use our fingers, a pen, a soft cloth, or whatever comes to mind. This Platanomelon duster will begin to prepare your partner for what will come next.
Sexbonus: Try covering the eyes of the person receiving the massage with a silk blindfold or mask. The rest of the senses are sharpened.
Pío de Platanomelon Duster. With soft and velvety feathers. Stimulating and very pleasant to the skin. Ideal for couple games.
Now it’s time to increase the temperature, so we’re going to start with the simplest, the back. Straddle your partner, who will be lying face down, and oil your hands or pour some of the oil from the candle. The posture alone will be very exciting for you.
Begin by moving your hands with the palms on your partner’s back very gently and then move your hands from bottom to top on both sides of the spine, starting at the kidney area and with the entire palm and fingers. With rubbing and friction of different intensities, increase the contact and pressure , but be careful, we do not want a massage in the style of Monica in Friends .
We are going to make a movement along the spine (without touching the bone) that reaches the neck to go back down to the kidneys and start again. You can expand the massage area until you reach the buttocks and use your whole hand, increasing the pressure very little by little, without rushing. A trick: when you go back down, do not raise your hands, always keep your skin close to his . Permanent contact will make him relax much more.
Combine different movements in different parts of the body
Go adding more oil and combining those movements that go up and down the back with circular movements such as palmodigital kneading with which we will gain depth.
You can use your knuckles gently and in circular movements, your fingertips, your palms… you’re not going to remove contractures from anyone, you’re just going to make your partner relax and get in tune with the touch, so focus on what Be nice.