If it’s a classic of sex, it will be for a reason, and that is that the intimacy and pleasure that the missionary brings make it a favorite of many couples. It promotes intimacy, since you can kiss your partner, it allows exciting penetration without being too deep and, in the case of girls, stimulation or penetration in this position helps to stimulate the clitoris, which allows for better orgasms. simpler way.
For all this it is a good option for sex, and it is possible to make missionary work better and more exciting thanks to some tricks:
Yes to passionate kisses!
Sometimes we tend to underestimate the ability of a good kiss to increase sexual pleasure, but the missionary position is an optimal position to try it again. Make the most of how close you are to your partner’s lips to give them long passionate kisses, play with your tongue and, as the pace increases, make your kisses more and more intense.
In addition to the lips, take your time to gently kiss her ears, her neck…all the pleasure points that will drive your partner crazy. You will see how the temperature of the meeting rises immediately!
Use your fingers and hands to stimulate
In sex, not everything is penetration, so it is convenient to take advantage of the intimacy of this position to use your fingers and hands and stimulate each other, either through masturbation or caressing other erogenous zones. Do not limit yourselves and experiment with all your senses!
Introducing a stimulating gel
One way to improve the missionary position is to experiment with a good stimulating gel to add more sensations and give you a fun experience in bed.
Do you want to make the missionary position more exciting? Then add a lubricant with a hot or cold effect and play with the temperatures in your favor. Something as simple as this can bring creativity and variety to sex, becoming a different experience that you will surely love. Durex Heat Lubricant contains an ingredient that heats up on contact with your skin, achieving an exciting sensation of heat and is suitable for vaginal, oral and anal sex. And, just on the opposite side, there is Durex Fresh Lubricant, with an exciting fresh effect that stimulates your senses, suitable for vaginal, anal and oral sex.
Blindfolded
Since you and your partner are face to face during sex in missionary position, why not increase the arousal and sexual tension by blindfolding the bottom person? As one of the primary senses will be limited, the other senses will be heightened to compensate, thus creating an intriguing and exciting experience.
Shy people can especially benefit from being blindfolded or having their partner blindfolded, as this can make them feel more comfortable and encourage them to be more daring.
Try a cock ring
If you’re interested in introducing some toys into your sex life to make missionary work more exciting, a penis ring is a good place to start. It is a simple device that helps the blood that is irrigated towards the penis stay there, favoring a firmer erection that lasts longer. In other words, guaranteed pleasure for both of you!
Making the missionary position more exciting with a vibrator
If the idea of ​​a penis ring doesn’t quite convince you, there are other sex toys that you can try to improve the missionary position. A vibrator can be the ideal ally to stimulate other erogenous zones during penetration or to offer heart attack preliminaries that make the experience much more intense and hot.
Variants of the missionary that are worth trying
The missionary is a very simple sexual position: a person lies on their back and spreads their bent legs to allow whoever is on top to stimulate or penetrate, as simple as that! But is it the only thing we can do if we opt for this sexual position? Of course not!
There are different variants of the missionary that can make the experience more intense and different. Some ideas you can try are:
- Legs on the shoulders for more intensity: whoever is below, instead of simply opening their legs to receive the stimulation, raises them until they rest on the shoulders of their partner, thus achieving a much deeper and more intense penetration that raises the missionary to a new level of pleasure.
- Legs around the waist maximum intimacy: This is a great way to make an already intimate position that much more so. Once again, the person on the bottom, instead of only opening their legs, wraps them around their partner to promote even closer and more intimate contact. A romantic option as well as pleasant.
- Straight legs for soft penetrations: if what we are looking for is a soft encounter, slow and delicious penetration, then this variation of the missionary is ideal. Normally the person who is below opens the legs by bending them and supporting the feet, but in this option what is proposed is to fully stretch the legs, in this way the penetration is not so deep and it is smoother. A good position option for large penises that will make you both enjoy.
- Elevated hip, elevated pleasure: this option is simple but pleasurable, it is simply that whoever is below places a cushion under the lower back to raise the hips a little more, while whoever is above stimulates the genital area with gentle circular movements. If we talk about sex between girls, rubbing the clitoris will maximize the pleasure, while in heterosexual couples, she will receive better clitoral stimulation from the rubbing, while he penetrates with soft circular movements for both of you to enjoy. This position is also a good option for sex between boys, since it allows good manual stimulation.
